The Lambton County Archives are home to a collection of 50,000
photo negatives from the Sarnia Observer
which depict local news worthy events from the 1950's and 1960's. Every
summer, a post-secondary student is hired to work on digitizing this significant
collection. In 2017, we hired Journalism Major Julie Mutis to work with the
Sarnia Observer Negative Collection. While scanning negatives, Julie's
imagination was captured by a photograph of a young family arriving in Sarnia
in the late 1950's. Wanting to uncover more details about this family, Julie
took the initiative to make contact with the sisters from the picture. Silvia
and Marian were kind enough to travel to the Lambton County Archives and share
their experiences with Julie, sitting down to talk with her about their emigration to Canada and sharing about
their life here. Below is Julie's article, published here on the Lambton County
Archives blog as a Guest Blogger. Thank you, Julie!
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Photograph of the Haler family in June 1957. Joseph, Maria, and daughters Silvia and Marian. From the Lambton County Archives Sarnia Observer Negative Collection. |
This photo of the Haler family, Joseph, Maria and their two
daughters Silvia and Marian, appeared in the Sarnia Observer on July 25th 1957. An interview with
Joseph about the family's escape from communist Yugoslavia accompanied the
photograph. The family was happy to have finally arrived at their destination
but uncertain about what was in store for them here in Canada. Sixty years
later, Joseph and Maria's daughters Silvia Freer and Marian Strangway are able
to finish telling their family's story.
In 1957 Slovenia was a part of Yugoslavia, a communist
country ruled by Joseph Tito. In the 1957 interview, Mr. Haler spoke about Tito
saying he only maintained control of the country through a strong military and
police presence. Though Silvia and Marian were very young when they lived in
Slovenia (8 and 6 respectively), they remember the climate of fear that
prompted their emigration to Canada. "With the communists, nothing was for
sure and if you didn't do exactly as they say, they would kill you," said
Marian.
Joseph Haler, who worked as a police officer for most of
his career in Slovenia, knew the dangers of going against the government's agenda
first hand. "When my dad's life was threatened I guess that was when the
decision was made that we had to get out of there," said Marian. In 1957 a
man came to the Haler's house and warned Joseph that the military was planning
to kill him. Marian and Silvia were not told the exact reason behind this
threat but said that they were always told it had something to do with Joseph's
actions during the Second World War.
Joseph left the country first and arranged for his family to
follow him soon after. Silvia and Marian recall having to climb mountains along
the "Iron Curtain," the guarded border between communist and
democratic Europe, to meet the professional border crosser Joseph had hired to
take his family into Austria. Although the two remember being nervous about
crossing the border, they were not entirely aware of the situation they were
in. "We were kids we didn’t have to clue what was going on," said
Silvia.
After crossing without incident, save the loss of one of
Marian's shoes, the family headed to a bus station and traveled to Maria's
sister's home in Austria. "We were told to keep our mouths shut and not
say a word while we were on the bus and from there on it was party time for
us," said Marian.
The Halers stayed with Maria's sister in Germany and then at
a refugee camp where the sisters attended school while their parents organized
the details of their trip to Canada. The Halers left a port in Trieste, Italy
on what the sisters describe as a very nice, luxury Italian ship. "Not
that we were staying in the luxury section," added Silvia.
The journey took around two weeks. "I know it was at
least two weeks because we had fish on Fridays and the fish was not good,"
recalled Silvia. The boat arrived in Montreal on Marian's seventh birthday and
after clearing customs, the Halers got on a train headed to Sarnia.
Although the family was happy to arrive in Sarnia, getting
here was only half the battle. "Everything was new. We couldn’t even speak
the language," said Marian. The sisters
said that their new neighbours made adjusting to life in Canada much easier. "I
guess we've been really lucky we have always had good neighbors and good
friends and everyone was always trying to help." Silvia and Marian said
their next door neighbours would even give them rides to school so they didn’t
have to make the long walk.
The sisters attended St. Peters where their peers were very
eager to help them learn English. "We picked up the language quickly,"
said Marian. "Dirty words really quick," added Silvia demonstrating a
habit the sisters have of finishing each other's thoughts. They said the kids
at school would teach them swear words which they would repeat at home, excited
to show their parents what they were learning. "Of course our dad picked
them up too and started to use them," said Silvia. It was Joseph's friends
who finally told him what kind of words his daughters were bringing home from
school.
Marian and Silvia said that learning English was harder for
their parents than it was for them but with the help of friends and co-workers,
they too learned quickly. Both Joseph and Maria quickly found employment upon
arriving in Sarnia. A friend of Maria's got her a job in the laundry department
at the hospital. She soon transferred to housekeeping where she became a
supervisor. Joseph had had a carpentry apprenticeship in Slovenia and continued
that career in Sarnia.
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Marian Strangway (L) and Silvia Freer (R). Photo by Julie Mutis, July 2017. |
Both Silvia and Marian graduated from SCITS and went on to
relocate multiple times in Canada and the U.S. Both are now retired and spend
their time volunteering for their respective communities of Port Huron and
Sarnia.
Leaving their home and family in Slovenia was not ideal for
Maria and Joseph but they did have the chance to go back. "It took a long
time before anyone would go back because everything was so unsettled out
there," said Marian. The Halers became involved with the Slovenian club in
Lobo and connected with other people who had been forced to flee their homes.
Silvia and Marian said that their father would often talk proudly
about how he arrived in Canada with less than a dollar in his pocket. Despite
this and all of the other uncertainties that the Halers faced when the Observer article was written, Marian
said that "Before we knew it," "it just all fell into
place," finished Silvia.
Big thanks to Pat Forbes, the Observer staff reporter who wrote about the Haler family in 1957.
Written by Guest Blogger Julie Mutis.
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The original newspaper article, published in the Sarnia Observer, July 25, 1957, p. 13 |
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Sarnia Observer, July 25, 1957, p. 26 |